wow, did this have to happen this week of all weeks?

[Globalastro]

warning, more family drama... feel free to skip over this rant.

Part of this stress comes from having to work 6 days this week and work with george on the 7th day (my last day off was thursday of last week), and all this s**t hit the fan right at the start of it

SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, I find out last night that my twin brother, billy is in jail... again. (First time reasoning, click here) (please redirect any and all comments about that one found through this rant back to this rant)

now, first of all, a little background on my brother's dating history.

Spoiler!

He dated a girl (to be referred to asC for a good while. During this time, her sister, T, moved up from texas and became close to billy and C. C saw this as a threat, so she decided to put RAT POISONING in his food one time.
He finds out about this, and didnt even mind. He was still with her for a while until she broke up with him. Then with C's permission, he started dating T. While dating T, they moved to texas where C and T's birth father (C was adopted, T was kept by the birth parents) where the birth father had the lease signed by Billy K***** and T K***** (yes, my family's last name, not T's) Then T and C came up with a plan. They stole his wallet, all of his money and all of his ID and flew back up to baltimore leaving him for dead because he had no car and no job at the time.

After having a family friend pay his way back up here and Billy working off the debt at the family friend's pizza/sub shop, he found out C and T were now living at C's adopted family's house, he called and talked to them. He was never mad at them for even a minute and T and billy got back together while she cheated on him, fathered a child that was not his and through all this, he was in love, he didnt care about how much she screwed him over.

Not once did he EVER even threaten any harm on either of them during or after both ofthose relationships!

Now, while with his new psycho wife, he has let her beat him up and give him black eyes to "relieve her anger and stress blah blah bullcrap"

from what i've gathered from my sister (Sally Jo), my psycho sister-in-law's (known as B**ch for the remainder of this post) facebook bullcrap and my mother is this:
Billy found out that B**ch was cheating on him with her best friend, Ass. We've been warning him that we think this has been happening for months now, but he wouldnt listen. The man is always at their house. she tells him she loves him through facebook for my whole family to see, she posts pictures of them kissing on facebook for my whole family to see... etc.

so B**ch posts that billy's in jail again then 3 hours later that everyones blaming her again. the only person who had talked to her from my family was Sally Jo, who was taking her side as a way to try push her to get a divorce so we dont have to continue going through this bullcrap so who was blaming her, i'd like to know. Then Ass replies "don't worry... it wasn't ur fault... people are gonna flip out cuz they don't know the true story... screw them... REMEMBER! HE WAS THE ONE TRYING TO CHOKE ME OUT AND TRIED TO FIGHT ME!"

From what B**ch has told Sally jo, the only person he hit was her and that he punched her in the face a bunch of times. on Facebook, all she said he did was knock a bunch of doors down and break them. Now Ass is saying that it was HIM that was attacked.

My brother has no history of violence but has done 2 tours in iraq and 1 Military Expeditionary Unit while in the marines. So i will admit that there is the possibility of PTS.

On top of this, my sister is in a hell of a lot of pain due to a root canal breaching into her sinus cavity and having a really bad sinus infection that the doctors said if it had gone any longer without being medicaly treated and drained, would have probably become fatal within a week or 2.

Now because of not being able to help me pay for my dentures, my sisters health and brothers arrest, my mother is having a massive nervous breakdown and i have not been able to talk to her about anything, even the weather without her starting to cry, and both my mother and father blame themselves for the way we were raised and their divorce on this.

I couldnt have asked for my parents to raise me, my brother or sister any better. Yes, as children, there were times we hated our parents. One time i was grounded for 3 years straight, no tv, no internet, no video games. I was hardly ever allowed to go to friends houses and was hardly ever allowed to get a piece of candy from the store or anything nice due to financial difficulties.

When it comes to blaming the divorce, the only person it affected was me, and my brother and sister agree. details in spoiler

Spoiler!

I was the one who lived with my mother from birth until i was 19. I was the one that caused the final straw at the time of the divorce (i'm not blaming myself for it, but me being gay and my fathers refusal to talk to me about anything was the final reason that it happened. I know that if i wasn't gay or had never come out to them, that something else would have happened to cause it)
Around the time of the divorce, my mother was a heavy alcoholic who would drunkenly spill out her guts to me about my father and telling me that i was not gay. She denies it to this day, but she honestly doesnt remember because she would be completely wasted when she said it. I was also the only one who heard the whole argument that caused the divorce, including my father giving out my mothers phone number and where she works in chat rooms saying she was bi curious and bringing swingers into the house and making my mother preform sexual acts on other women against her will. My brother and sister know nothing of that last thing which has caused increased tension between my father and myself, and my sister who is a "daddies girl" at heart.

Yes, i know that my family is royally f***ed up and is the definition of dysfunctional, but i love them with all my heart anyways, and although their are some things i wish were different (primarily between my parents and having nothing to do with me) besides that, i wouldnt want them any other way

Now, you have my brother who's history of violence went to the extent of maybe punching a pillow or the bed and very very very rarely a wall, but has never EVER even threatened harm on another person who is being accused of domestic violence... and you have the psycho B**ch who is a stripper who lived on her grandmothers couch until my brother came along from the marines who wanted to marry him and did within weeks of meeting him. and you have Ass, the "best friend" of which they make no real effort to hide the fact that they have something going on more than friendship and have made no effort to hide it from the rest of my family, and as far as any of us know, does not have a job.

something doesnt add up.

sometimes military=money, something she never had.

does this sound fishy to you too or is it just me? and omg, it feels good to get this stuff out... even the unrelated divorce issues... it hurt like hell to write and i was ready to scream in anger when writing parts of it, but it feels good to just have the residual nerve reaction of letting it out.

[Mitchi]

Oh wow. wtf. Yes, I read all of that (including the post about your brother getting married).

First off...wtf, He's a Marine? I am disappoint. Really. Most Marines I know are people you generally don't F with.

And your dad...wth. Really. Who does that to their wife?

Whatever happened to the times of brutal punishment for adulterers?

Further proof that marriage nowadays is basically a piece of paper and doesn't mean shit to a lot of people. As for the whole Military = money issue, that's why a lot of enlisted get married, for the pay boost.

It's shit like this that's probably the reason why none of my family thinks it's at all a big deal that I got married. To them it's just gossip because marriage means jack crap to a lot of people. >_>

[Globalastro]

well, thankfully, my father, although still refusing to admit parts of it, has apologized to my mother and does understand what he did wrong. In all honesty, I dont understand how you can think that's not wrong, but then again, i'm not my father.

But to me, this whole situation kinda sounds like she flattered him in to falling for her, all for money. i really wonder if theyre drugging billy and then have Ass beat up B**ch for any money won by a divorce case.

I know, conspiracy theories never matter because there would be no real way to prove it, but i still wonder.

[Mitchi]

Wait...if he divorces her for abuse and adultery, does she still get money since it's ENTIRELY her fault?

[Globalastro]

They have to prove it's her fault first. If she files the divorce for domestic violence against her, and she wins, he will probably have to give her most of what little he actually has.

[Mitchi]

Then take screenshots of ALL of the facebook crap from her and Ass. ALL of it. Right now.

She can't do much if you have PROOF that she cheated on him.

[Globalastro]

my mother, sister and cousin have taken care of that already, thank god.

[1stsim144]

Wow. I feel sorry for you man. But how come your brother NEVER defense himself from that *****? I seriously don't get it. I mean EVERYONE should have their limits. Lord... And about that Ass, wow is just wow.

"don't worry... it wasn't ur fault... people are gonna flip out cuz they don't know the true story... screw them... REMEMBER! HE WAS THE ONE TRYING TO CHOKE ME OUT AND TRIED TO FIGHT ME!"

What an ass.. And he doesn't even have a job. Lmao. Losers

[Globalastro]

Originally Posted by Globalastro

warning, more family drama... feel free to skip over this rant.

Judging by the views vs responses, i'm thinking lots of people felt the need to do exactly that


But on topic XD
ugh, and i didnt mention that i have to work with the stupidest employee 3 days this week. the boy's been with the company 3 months and still has trouble with the simplest of things. He mumbles and you cant understand a word out of his mouth, and he is slower than a paraplegic sloth. Instead of yelling for me to help him when he has a line, he just stands there dumbfounded, then when a problem comes up with a customers account while there's a line, he slowly makes his way to where i'm doing what i need to do for the night, tells me there's a problem, only for me to come up to the front of the store to see a line 15 customers long. we rarely even have 15 customers in the store at that time of night, so how are there 4 groups walking around, and still a huge line with a total which is a little more than half of what we usually do on a tuesday....

right now, my stress level is high enough and everyone at work except him can deal with the night while i do the manager things stress free. i wanted to tell him to just leave and dont come back because it's just as bad as working by yourself on a really busy night. When he asks for help with the computer, he stands there and fks up what you tell him to type to fix a problem so i cant even help other customers when he has a problem and he wont get out of my fking way to just be able to tell him to go sit in a corner and twiddle his thumbs... hell, that'd be more productive than what he does now

[Leenalia]

Hmmm.... I wonder if that employee of yours have any mental disabilities? If you fire him because he does a lousy job and in the end, you find that he has a disability, then you'll have a lawsuit on your hands. That is, if you're the manager lol.

As for your brother, I feel for him but it is his fault. I keep on thinking why would a Marine tolerate this behavior? Maybe he's desperate for the pay boost or maybe he's depressed that he became spineless to everyone but himself?

The wife needs to go, and so does her boy-toy. Glad you're getting evidence against her for a potential courtcase in the future. Also about having the money for your sister and your brother, I'd say that your mother should focus on your sister's health first before rescuing your brother from jail.

Then after all that, she can focus on helping you with the dental fees. Hopefully you aren't all in immediate danger or something, and a Marine going to jail for domestic abuse -- wouldn't that hinder his future career? I hope he doesn't get fired from the Marines.