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11-02-2012   #1 (permalink)
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I've decided that, life is to short to dwell on these small insignificant things. People when they don't have as much as you, always try to bring you down, I always take everyone criticism and what they just think of me in general to serious. At this stage in my life, I'm tired of it all and i'm just not going to give a damn anymore, So if you're reading this and you know who i am. I'm sure you'll try your hardest to put me down, But i just really don't give a damn anymore. So try your harder and i won't crack. Thanks for making me realize that.
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Good realization. (:
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congrats
I wonder how people like you can do it
no matter how much I tell myself no one else matters, I always have to rely on other people's support.

+9001 respect points for you~~ n 3 n
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The joy of jealousy. Criticisms are nice if it helps you grow as a person but not if it's to insult you in a certain way.
But some people are way too sensitive or not strong/stable emotionally and thus unable to take ANY critique, because they view 100% of negative opinion as a personal attack. Kind of like the people who throw the world "troll" around online for everyone they disagree with. It's actually a psychological issue of sorts, probably some sort of social anxiety disorder.
 
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But some people are way too sensitive or not strong/stable emotionally and thus unable to take ANY critique, because they view 100% of negative opinion as a personal attack. Kind of like the people who throw the world "troll" around online for everyone they disagree with. It's actually a psychological issue of sorts, probably some sort of social anxiety disorder.
Golden.
For once, I actually agree with you. It's a ******* pain to deal with those kind of people and there's no productive way to ever try to get a point across with them going, "U mad?" / "Rage more" in their minds since they take everything as an attack, which in reality is not.

Some of them can't differentiate between a serious tone from ad hominem statements and just lump them together. Once I put on a serious tone, they think it's an attack. DO I HAVE TO TYPE IN "LOLZ" / "x3" / ":3" / "XD" / "XP" to always make a point.

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The joy of jealousy. Criticisms are nice if it helps you grow as a person but not if it's to insult you in a certain way.
You can also grow from insults, it's just very very very difficult and only a few can do it without overloading.
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Usually, Those little comments that people have that they should keep to themselves, Kind of sparks my flame. I don't know why i was burden with so much hatred but it's just not healthy at some points. I've noticed it before but never did anything about it till now and even now i'm still a little bothered by some stuff. But life comes from experiences and with those experience we either make the character we'll be in the future or destroy ourselves entirely at the point.

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For once, I actually agree with you. It's a ******* pain to deal with those kind of people and there's no productive way to ever try to get a point across with them going, "U mad?" / "Rage more" in their minds since they take everything as an attack, which in reality is not.

Some of them can't differentiate between a serious tone from ad hominem statements and just lump them together. Once I put on a serious tone, they think it's an attack. DO I HAVE TO TYPE IN "LOLZ" / "x3" / ":3" / "XD" / "XP" to always make a point.



You can also grow from insults, it's just very very very difficult and only a few can do it without overloading.
I can agree with what you're saying here almora but you should think of something else, The person you're talking to over a game has no idea what tone of voice or how your feelings are at the point those faces are like assurance that you're not annoying the person or they're annoying you. Although some people take it overboard and add like 12 different faces for no apparent reason but you can't blame them for not knowing how you exactly feel.
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I can agree with what you're saying here almora but you should think of something else, The person you're talking to over a game has no idea what tone of voice or how your feelings are at the point those faces are like assurance that you're not annoying the person or they're annoying you. Although some people take it overboard and add like 12 different faces for no apparent reason but you can't blame them for not knowing how you exactly feel.
I definitely agree with you. Most of the times I feel like I can get so much more done with face to face interactions, than typing on forums, but that's far-fetched. True, it's difficult to discern what tone I'm carrying over in my(or anybody's) conversation truly, without seeing their face.

I can discern tones accurately(to an extent), it's just that I've been unlucky at running into the people Griever described. It's a problem when you're taking a mature and calm, but serious standpoint, and all they do is skim over your points, immediately assigning it a hateful, "rage-more" connotation. They have a lot more to work on in terms of their own emotional and social growth. Not to mention personal grudges cloud logic pretty much all the time, is why some can't grow successfully.

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Also, good for you to not pay anymore heed to degrading comments. That's quite a huge achievement, since most people aren't good at it. It's a very useful/valuable skill being able to regulate one's own emotions. It'll come in handy in real life. Having a thick skin frees up many of your current stresses.
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But some people are way too sensitive or not strong/stable emotionally and thus unable to take ANY critique, because they view 100% of negative opinion as a personal attack. Kind of like the people who throw the world "troll" around online for everyone they disagree with. It's actually a psychological issue of sorts, probably some sort of social anxiety disorder.

hahah thats me. :'(

I take about everything personal and get upset.

I cant really help it xD

</lots of anxiety issues>


BUT ive gotten better in the past couple years ;3
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