That's so sad... ;_; I hope that you will be able to soon enough though ;_;... I really do wish for it myself, perhaps just as much as you do but I can't have it in such a long time it feels like. I would do anything to have it already, but it would probably mess up our lives, make things harder since we don't have the economy to do such a thing yet and I have yet to finish college and so has he, not a good time. >: But how I wish it was... I understand your longing... ;_;
I will add you too MSN instead if I can habs it. :3
How wonderful and easy everything would be if there weren't any financial problems and only love. I can't be together with Adun now because we can't afford paying thousands every other month to be together. >: We can do it though... Love conquers all, isn't it so? If you had the monies now, would you have kids? I hope that when you decide to, that it will be with the right one. :3
And, wow, since the 90's, known them for so long without ever meeting. :/ Make sure you do at some point in life, you won't regret visiting Europe either, it's so different compared to the US, a very nice life experience. I've been to all of those countries, you can actually cruise them all in just a matter of days, they are shattered but relatively close to each other. Oh, and I should adds.
Having kids is expensive indeed, and for them to have a good childhood, having both of their parents around is the best. I've myself experienced how life is with parents being split up. You might not believe in marriage, but some day, if you find the right person, somebody that you can trust fully, someone that you love and that you know that you will always love then you might change your mind. You don't even have to be married, you can just co-habit with your love and have a family like that, but being married is good for legal reasons, not talking about economical reasons, I wouldn't care for those. Married or not, what you need is a partner you can trust or else having kids will be tough, not just on you and the mother but also for the child. I won't be having in some time, need to get things together first like education and some financial security. Marriage... Whenever we can afford it, we are ready for it, I don't think it's too young at 22, but it will still probably take some years. Who are these Swedish friends though? Tobbe sounds soo Swedish, lol. And you should definitely visit Sweden, I'm sure your friends would appreciate it. Have you been in Europe before? And if you come visit, you would get to meet Adun too, since he is moving here in 6 months or so. o:
Thanks, I like your profile too, very dark and gothic. The avatar is really nice, I like the feeling of the ice blue eyes, it's special. <3
I didn't get to comment on your post, but I did agree on what you said about people putting themselves in debt for stupid reasons, I also think that the greatest day of my life will be when I have kids, rather than when I get married.
The article you sent me, lulz. I don't know what to say, the whole things is a mess, it started messy and it ended up the same way. How2havesex with your avatar though? The funny thing is that she now is with some dude she met on WoW... .-. I predict it will end up the same way, she obviously seems to have a bad taste in men. I think that they took their "virtual world" with them in to real life when they married, not realizing the harsh reality of things and not being prepared, which was a big mistake. p:
I mean just because I'm lax on MOG, doesn't mean I'm not a perfectionist. In no way do I get to freedom to do things my way in the majority of my life in school, with friends, and with my family. Their most popular label for me is "perfectionist" and I have no reason to argue. My mommy's a perfectionist, I have obvious OCDs, and I judge my work cruelly as imperfect as it is. My reasons for doing putting up with all of this is because I am shallow and would rarely go out my way if it didn't involve a friend.