Originally Posted by TheBlackCatXIII
So my brother recently had a really bad break up, I've been talking some sense into him but I don't think he's in the mind frame of processing any incoming information. I've had one break up before and I recovered really quickly without feeling too depressed @_@ It was nothing like what he's going through at the moment, so I really don't know what I can do for him.
Any suggestions how I might be able to help him? Talking sense into him is totally not working Q_Q"
Why would you talking sense to someone who had recently gone through a break up?
It's natural for people to feel depressed after a bad
break up as you said it yourself. So the only you can do is leave him alone and let him deal on his own. It's his break up. Not yours. He's probably still in love with his significant other. You just can't force people to recover quickly after a break-up. ESPECIALLY a bad
I know you mean well, I think. But dude.. c'mon. Give him some space.
So in other word, the thing you can do now is leave him the f- alone. You don't want to make things worse. I'm saying this because I've experience this shit myself and it cost me a friend.
He'll get better in time. But don't pretend like nothing happened though.