What attracts you in the other person?

[aliceingamerland]

Eye-glasses. A real head turner.

[neodrakeflare]

dorkieness (Even though its not a word....) being a nice person and most important quality.....A NERD!

[Fuhrooka]

Someone who can keep a conversation going.

[darkengy]

combination of looks, personality & sense of weirdness

[Samaniego]

Originally Posted by SOC

The question is, though, how to get her to depend on you? A lot of girls are afraid of that unless you show them true commitment, and some only give that commitment IF YOU FREAKING ENGAGE THEM AND NOTHING ELSE!

*Mumble grumble....*

I've had 7 girlfriends my entire life, I started dating when I was 13, my first girlfriend was 2 years, my second was 3 months, my third was 2 years, my fourth was like 3 weeks lol, my fifth was 10 months, my sixth was 3 months, and my 7th was 11 months.

Every single one of them except one required a heavy amount of commitment that most people aren't comfortable with giving before they got "dependent."

However, I'm a firm believer you should only date girls that you feel you could potentially marry someday. That doesn't mean you have to marry every girl you date, but if you don't think you can marry them someday, then don't date them at all.

Amen........

[ForTheCity]

Someone who I can just be myself with and be completely open.

[Tardar]

>Smart and rational
>Fit (not muscular, but not fat)
>Must have some differences
>Attractive (in my eyes)
>Must be educated. I'm not going to work while you sit around all day. If you don't work, you're going to be in charge of managing the estate. B|

Off the top of my head. Except I'm also not putting a whole bunch because I'm complicated. o3o

[mishka]

reasonable... and different

[SixP4ck]

I like the eyes, nose, hair and also lips.

[Belle]

a. personality
b. looks (can't be butt ugly but idc if you're not hot hot material)
c. funny
d. plays leagues
e. likes calling 24/7
f. sweet
g. cornyness (im a sucker for the sweet talkers)
h. confident
i. smart
j. not afraid to show affection in front of others

[Janna]

Going to redo my old post once again, my views have changed somewhat since then. :<

First and foremost I like a guy that is funny. People that are too serious and don't make lighthearted jokes from time to time are hard to get attracted to. I'm also a shy person so opposites are quite attractive to me. There's also loyalty and compassion, of course, but who wouldn't want that in a partner?

And this view will stay the same no matter what, probably - I'd prefer guys who didn't have too many previous partners (as in, more than six or seven). It just makes me uncomfortable since it feels like they're chasing after a relationship and I'm just one of their many girlfriends instead of someone different and special.

No being obsessed with games and no-lifing on them, either. Being a gamer is dandy and all but don't put games before your partner.

And a nice voice is a huge plus! Monotone voices are really boring ugh haha. Clingy is all right since that makes me feel loved; so long as they don't even want me going outside or talking to any boys or anything.

[KaiotakiBun]

eyes can tell everything the words can't.

[Nekcihc]

logical & rational.
i really have a thing for gamers.
twisted sense of humor.