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08-16-2010   #1 (permalink)
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It took months for my sisters to accept me of who I am.. And now, my (male) cousin just knew about me being gay and he announced that he doesn't and will not accept me of who I am. It'll be lying if I say I could careless, I mean he's like my brother even though we're same age.. (But you'll feel that if you have 3 sisters and no brothers in your house). And knowing that he'll not forgive me for being gay and proud of it is just..

God... Seriously, why does I have to go through this shits all over again. Why can't people just accept it? -emo-
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There are ALWAYS going to be people like that. You can't let it keep getting you down. YOU'VE accepted who you are, and like you said you're proud, so don't let others get to you, no matter how close they are to you.

It doesn't change who you are now that he knows, and its up to him to get over it, its his own problem and prejudices, theres nothing you can do.

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08-16-2010   #3 (permalink)
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But but.. T^T
Meh.. There goes another cousin.. LOL
I hope he'll get over it soon. '-'
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He will. And if he isn't willing to accept you, is he worth being upset over?
He's family, he should love you for who you are, not punish you for it.
 
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Ya.. thanks. I feel much better now. :I
Though we still didn't talk about it.. But meh. *goes cuddles in bf's arms*
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There is nothing wrong with being gay! I have many gay friends and I love 'em!

And...I swear you mentioned about your "girlfriend" in another thread...*stare*
 
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Give him some time, he'll see the big picture soon.

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^ that. <3


Gay people loves to call their female friends girlfriends.. `-`
But ppl always assume its a partner, so i added space in between. but '-'
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I love what Aimee said.
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There are ALWAYS going to be people like that. You can't let it keep getting you down. YOU'VE accepted who you are, and like you said you're proud, so don't let others get to you, no matter how close they are to you.
Though it's sad that someone so close to you is like that, but if you are as important to him as he is to you, he'll get through it slowly. He'll see that you're still the same person.
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I honestly don't see what's the problem he sees x_x it's your life, not his, and it's not like you're going to be dating him, is it? (Unless you liek incest.. 8D?)
 
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This is my view:
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If he can't accept you for who you are, you shouldn't even consider him family. Family members are suppose to accept you no matter who or what you like. Everyone has their own "preferences" and you can't expect every family member to be similar.
It could be family upbringing too. If his parents are against this, then it's probably something ingrained into his head.
If that's the case, it'll probably take some time for him to get rid of that mindset to accept you for who you are as long as you guys still love each other as brothers.
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Must I bring Avenue Q into this?

There will be those who won't accept, but on the other hand there will always be those who love for who you are.

My friends have taken me in for who I am more than some of my family members, and that's why I love 'em more ^_^
 
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@ Milkshakes & 1stsim144 OMG...DUHHHHH I am so stupid and I call myself their friend >_>

If you guys were close/tight before he find out you are gay...I think it would probably just be a matter of time when he will accept the fact. It’s just that normally girls tend to be more understanding when it’s about this kind of stuff.
 
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Thanks guys ^-^

Yeah.. I should not care of what he thinks since this is my life not his. Yeah!!! >:0
<3 you all.

And gay incest were always my fantasy Vixen.
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