I feel so disturbed with some stuff in my life. One of them is my sister.
First she decides to marry (married 9 January 2010), now they're living here until their apartment is all done. So what's the problem? She is too emotional, everything that happens to her, she takes it double.
Like some weeks ago, she was taking a shower then suddenly started shouting, scared, it was a spider (like 2''~3'' big). Anyone who doesnít know her would think it was a murderer threatening her.
She also takes little stuff like it was a big problem... Last week we were on our way back home and stopped to put some gas on the car, then she remembers that the car needs some water... There goes her husband ask the guys to get some water, and she tells him to put some liquid thing with the water, to help defroster the front glass. Here comes the problem, she told him to put just a bit of it and he did put all the rest because she almost whispered it (he didn't hear it), then she said "NOOOOOOOO! IT WASN'T ALL OF IT, JUST A BIT! I TOLD YOU!Ē Before this incident
, when we were getting on the road, he stopped on the car almost on the middle of the runway, and a car passed on the other runway, she did an EPIC GASP when she saw the car coming, no car were coming in our direction on the runway we were in and the other car passed by 3 meters from us, and of course the car we were in wasn't moving.
She also "hunts" problems to annoy others, only because someone told her "not to go sleep while there are still relationship-related problems to solve". We study on the same university, and we come home together by car. Another day, when we arrived, her husband were playing video-game and laughing at his attempts... Another problem, she started to shout around the house "I CAN'T BELIVE IT! YOU DIDN'T COME OUT TO SAY HI TO ME! I HAD A BAD DAY! (most of her days are bad, at least that's what she says, that's nothing new) YOU DIDN'T SAY HI TO ME BECAUSE OF THIS SHIT VIDEO-GAME! AND YOU EVEN LAUGH AT ME! (yea... everything and everyone is against her, in her mind, of course)". Another night they were discussing (loudly, as always) about don't-ask-me-what on their bedroom, it was like 2AM (I guess the neighbors just love when it happens). Every time they have a fight she says she regrets having married him, but 1 they after that, or even less time, they're all cool between themselves, like nothing happened.
Almost every day she complains about something that happened on her work, something that happened on her class, it's always about someone who didn't do something and it'll affect her in some way, or someone gossiping or talking about someone/something (this just annoys her, don't ask me why).
She also pokes people until a problem is solved or when she gets tired of poking (the second is ultra-rare).
These stuffs only annoy me when they're happening, obviously, makes me want to shout "SHUT UP!" and put my feet on her face.
Other thing that bugs me: Grandma. She's always looking for something to do, but only home-related stuff like cleaning, washing clothes, do dishes, cooking... No one tells her to do anything, and if there's exactly nothing to do here she goes to my aunt's house and does the same things there and takes care of my cousins because they're almost always fighting each other and because my aunt is widow (her husband died because his heart was bigger than normal, and he said Jesus would save him and refused to take medication then -R.I.P.- *sad fail*) and works on a hospital's kitchen 3~4 days a week (but she earns almost 2 grand/month, she took this job after her husband's "incident").
In my opinion, cooking is the worse thing she does. SERIOUSLY, she frits meat, instead of putting just a little drop of cooking oil on the frying pan (so the meat won't bind/glue on the pan), she puts a lot of it, almost enough to make some french fries. Sorry, I was wrong, she doesn't frits meat, the TOASTS it... Yea, it drops oil and is hard to cut. She exaggerates on oil in EVERYTHING... Before cooking rice, she spreads oil all over the pot and puts a few tiny little bits of garlic, 1/4 of the mixture is oil.. But wait! It gets better! She also "overcook" the rice, the cooked grains are like 3~4 times the raw grains' size... but I wouldn't complain about the size if, at least, tasted good and didn't shine because of the oil excess.
From a 1~10 hygiene score, I'd give her a 2... 0 being like those fat, dirty, stinky guys who fart a lot, never take a shower and never clean stuff. 2 because she don't wash her hands before preparing the stuff to cook (at least I don't see she doing it), she smokes, she also doesn't take a shower often... So what I see is an old lady (stinky and smelling bad) going straight to the kitchen and getting the stuff and ingredients to prepare lunch, instead of, at least, washing her hands before preparing lunch. Also the food we have for lunch on friday is almost the same that was prepared on monday, specially rice and beans. So I extremely-rarely eat this kind of food, instead, I eat bread, cook some noodles, eat cereal.
I also don't like that she thinks that she knows more about health than health-related professionals (medics, nutritionists, ...) and that if you eat beans you'll be strong (I don't like beans, and I found a good and scientifically-supported excuse for that, thanks to my last year's biology teacher) only because "It has iron!" (I won't write much about it, just that the iron we "use" is "iron 2", found mostly on meat, and the beans' iron is "iron 3").
One more thing! This is the most disturbing...
My dad is almost like Chris' father (from "Everybody Hates Chris"). Last year we went to a computers store, after he bought what he wanted he asked me if I wanted something, I said that I needed a new mother board, a new processor, a new graphics processor, new RAM memory sticks... anyways almost a complete PC, except for HD, DVD drive, and some other stuff I already have and can be used. Then he said "Whoa! Then you need another PC." but he didn't buy anything else there, only his stuff
Some days after that we went to a general store and he bought a notebook for my mom, and looked at some PCs, then I thought "YaY I'll get something decent!", but those were too expensive compared to an upgrade's cost on my current PC, not counting that those would be "weak" compared to my PC after the upgrade. He didn't buy anything and said to the seller guy "Then we'll stay with the upgrade.", and I, again, "YaY I'll get something decent!". But it's almost a whole year and he didn't do anything about it
Instead of it, he bought a DVD player with TV antenna for the van and a bigger screen so who's on the back seats can watch, too. After that I almost said "Yea! DVD and other ridiculously useless stuff you buy, but stuff to upgrade my PC, that is good, you don't buy." Mom was frustrated with his senseless spends, too, but, unlike me, she wants something to do physical exercises because she thinks she has morbid obesity, even though it's clearly visible that she's far from 1/4 the way to that
A while ago he wanted me to do a course to work with him or any other course and get a job, only because he wasnít pleased with my choice on the university (Psychology) and thought the professionals in the area donít earn much, not as much as he considers the ideal, but after I showed him a law project thatís currently being voted, he changed his mind. In case youíre curious, the project, if approved, will raise the minimum salary of the psychology professionals to R$4650, and professionals with more experience and time spent on the area will earn more, of course, and also specializations will raise the earnings.
Yesterday my mom asked him if she can buy some gymnastics equipment for her exercises, if he let her buy what she wants I'll ask for a drawing tablet, and it'll be better if he buys the tablet I want and not any cheap thing, or else I won't want it
That's all my frustrations, and it's been DAYS since i don't eat something salty. Good that I don't think about these stuff too much, and when I do I don't feel too bad. I'm not emo like cry because of it all, just wanted to post it here, just to see what others say
And because I needed to tell someone x.x
There's much more stuff, they're not as frustrating as these, and there's some funny stuff, but it wouldn't be too funny without a video of them.