So I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We've had our problems but we are happy and plan on being together for a long time. There's just one roadblock. His 'supposed' friend. Supposed because she is no friend to him. She's done nothing but disrespect me and our relationship since it started. Just because they were "friends" before we started going out and she can't get over it.
The only reason I have to deal with her is because she's best friends with my boyfriend's sister. So she's always over the house. And every time I see her, I get very angry. My boyfriend's talked to her many times about how she acts and she just ignores him. She's always taking pictures with him and her friends are always commenting on how cute they are together.
I'm 26 years old, GFD...I do not need to put up with this bullsh...I can't even eat dinner with his family when she's there because I get so mad. The only person that cares is my boyfriend but he can't tell her not to come over. Then his sister will get mad and have me kicked out of the house.
I'm just so tired of his sister and her friends acting like this girl is the injured party here. I didn't 'steal' him away from her. They ended things before I even met him. And I've done nothing to her...I even tried patching things up a few times (trying to be the adult) but she just acted like a child and went back to being a total *****. I'm done with her.
And I had a talk with my boyfriend last night. He is happy with me and he's looking forward to starting a life together once we are both financially secure and he's done school. So all bets are off for this *****. I'm going to make myself present whenever she's here and make it damn clear that he's MY boyfriend and she might as well just go cry into her pillow cuz he's not hers. I don't care how aggravating it will be. He's a great guy and totally worth fighting for. And I'll fight to the end for him.
Sorry it's so long..I'm just so damn frustrated and I've been dealing with this for too long.