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Miyuki 06-26-2008 10:53 AM

Entering Motherhood/Fatherhood.
 
Ok, lets say...

You, as a mother, just found out that you're pregnant, and soon to have your first kid, how would you feel? Surprised and happy? Jumps happily with your husband? Gets stuff ready to prepares for your new baby?

Same goes to the father side, what will you react, when you heard the news that your wive get pregnant with your first kid?

How will you prepares, for your first parenthood?

TheCosmicLion 06-26-2008 11:02 AM

I'm gonna be happy and surprise yea <3 And then, before anything else, im gonna think of a name that will fit my baby <333 /thinks. Miyoo will be good <3

Khmer2k1d5 06-26-2008 11:41 AM

I fainted. Then it was a lie, I was sad...

khyle 06-26-2008 12:31 PM

first question comes into mind if this was unintended pregnancy

getting pregnant out of wedlock is seen as immoral
one might be shunned by society but after the baby is born,
people will rejoice and the couple starts a new life
  • in legal age
  • do you have a job, a stable one
  • can you support a family on your own
  • does both parties of the concerned approve of your relationship

if any is answered no,
then it's a hell'a tough road ahead of you
unless you're funded by parents then you're safe for a few years

Henreh 06-26-2008 12:55 PM

1. /headdesk
2. /facepalm
3. what everyone but henry said.

Sanichi 06-26-2008 01:09 PM

Thats not my kid...

Jumpstart 06-26-2008 03:00 PM

depends on how i feel: Sad: Suicide Angry: Homicide Happy:... Homicide

Miyuki 06-26-2008 06:10 PM

You guys sure have lots of negative feedback, lol I did said husband and wife.

khyle 06-26-2008 06:56 PM


Quote:

Originally Posted by Sanichi (Post 25142)
Thats not my kid...

Hidoi !
if i was your wife, i'd strangle you & stab you with a spoon http://khyle.rorikon.org/Uploads/Smilies/cry.gif

one way or another, everyone will be taking that path
people who failed early will later on give life advises to those who will fail after them

it is not another person's right to look down upon those who are in need
might as well offer a bit of support to cheer them up rather than pushing them to the edge

Kotarou 06-26-2008 07:24 PM

Most important step: Ask mom for advice. 8D

Instant win.

Pwntang 06-26-2008 07:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by khmer2k1d5 (Post 25034)
I fainted. Then it was a lie, I was sad...

16 year-old boys aren't supposed to be doing the nasty-nasty Henry. :rabies:

Catharsis 06-26-2008 07:50 PM

I'd.... shudder. ;;

Khmer2k1d5 06-26-2008 07:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bemobaby (Post 25640)
16 year-old boys aren't supposed to be doing the nasty-nasty Henry. :rabies:

#____# I was the victim?

Miyuki 06-26-2008 07:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kotarou (Post 25618)
Most important step: Ask mom for advice. 8D

Instant win.

Lol, your own mom is the best person to asks for advices for situation like this x3.

@Cath:- ;;

---///

Lol, remember I said...married @_@...husband and wife, and not those "illegal" kids ;;.

Please don't mixes them @_@

mamoru 06-26-2008 08:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Catharsis (Post 25645)
I'd.... shudder. ;;

I'd probably shudder too, even if I was married.

Medoria 06-26-2008 08:25 PM

I'd be super happy :DD and then i would want to make a baby room and buy tons of baby stuff and read baby books and eat food that is good for the baby and obsess.
:D
Hubby says "No babies for at least 5 years!" also *inserts stern look!*
:<

Sanichi 06-26-2008 08:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by khyle (Post 25575)


Hidoi !
if i was your wife, i'd strangle you & stab you with a spoon http://khyle.rorikon.org/Uploads/Smilies/cry.gif

one way or another, everyone will be taking that path
people who failed early will later on give life advises to those who will fail after them

it is not another person's right to look down upon those who are in need
might as well offer a bit of support to cheer them up rather than pushing them to the edge

ohh I didn't read.
If we are married?
I would be fully prepared by then and be excited about it :/
I plan EVERYTHING BIG or stupid thing I do (this is BIG)
But yah I'd shake a little and say...
1. I not an adolesent anymore *slight shudder*
2. Baby shower *bigger shudder*
3. Family and Friend say CONGRATLATIONS while eating food and stuff I spent money on with such a large family*Larger shudder*
4. My wife is going to get a bit big *actually not so bad*
5. Baby food and etc *Large shudder*
6. Family and Friends embarrasing me ._. *LARGEST shudder*

All together = ._.''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' '''''''''''''''''''''''''
When family and friends leave me alone then I'll bcause I planned most of it
but i'd still be happy because it would be funny to look back to.

edit:
Oh yes child birth.
That one would freak on the most.
On birth day Iwould really want her already at the hospital and then not have to see it at all ._.
by then I have to be there for her T-T

Rydia 06-26-2008 08:43 PM

I would be horrified. ._.

JC 06-26-2008 08:48 PM

Was nervous yet excited when was going to be a parent, but that isn't the case anymore and leaves both of us discouraged and saddened to heal up from pain.

No, not married.


Why does it have to be marriage? What about the Man-Man and Woman-woman people? "How do you feel when they know there's sperm from someone else in you, and I can't have rights because its not my eggs?
or "How can you use a surrogate and I won't have rights to the kid either?"

Ethane 06-26-2008 08:59 PM

I'd be prepared, because I'd be wanting a kid. I'd be excited.

Then I'd be scared, hoping the baby makes it through the journey ok

Then I'd hope I had the ability to handle the child's needs throughout the important years


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