Sound advice. Thanks for the kind words. I really do think I need to do something urgent fast. Some things I left out are...well I don't want to reveal too much since its personal but I'll give out bits of information. I've known her for 4 years and I've always been there to cheer her up. She has borderline personality disorder so her emotions are more increased then normal. After one night, she can be the most unhappy person I've ever seen in my life. A week ago she acted the same way over a stalker incident. Some pedophile released from jail was tailing her at work and at school. She spent the entire time thinking about it herself. she was so scared and had no idea what to do. The police are incompetent where I live. Very bad at their job and her mother is...let's just say a drunk delusional woman. Father is a racist that is very violent, went to court a few times and I tried to arrest him once. Even after all the things he has done he is still not behind bars. By the way he already doesn't like me. This is just me leaving all the "incidents" out. I'm really worried for her and I can't just sit idly by when I know she is in trouble, especially after hearing how hopeless she feels. I plan to just surprise her with the money. I can see she is keeping me away to avoid me from cheering her up and she seems to be constantly texting her old lover now. That part really makes me jealous, but that is the summarized situation. I can definitely handle a job. I've done more crazy things then I can count.
Last edited by icyshadow; 01-21-2012 at 04:12 AM.