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10-05-2011   #1 (permalink)
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Okay. I told a few people before this I'm a male and they understood. But, there's this one girl left.

So a FEW people assume I'm female. And, a select few of those are bisexuals. Well one of them has recently fallen for me and I need to know how do I dump the truth on her while still being her friend?

The thing is I fear her just pretty much blocking me since we've been friends for a really long time.

tl;dr Friends for a LOOONG. She has a crush on me but, thinks I'm a girl. How do I dump truth?
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Take her aside, and discuss this matter, being honest and straight to the point.

Not much else you can do and if she leaves because of that that is her problem not yours.
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Tell her the truth. If she's really your friend, then she might be surprised/disappointed, but she'll gradually accept it and won't abandon you. If she does have a problem with it and cuts you off as a result, then frankly, she wasn't that much of a friend.

But you need to tell her, because it's not fair to her for you to continue leading her on like that, either.
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Just be honest, as other people have stated. If that person gets infuriated and/or upset, that is their own problem; I could understand if you were trying to fool people with your gender by lying, but nobody should be upset over assuming a gender and finding out differently.
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The thing is I fear her just pretty much blocking me since we've been friends for a really long time.
How is this a reason for blocking you? I think quite the opposite. If she is your friend your gender shouldn't matter.
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Basically what everyone else said.

If she's really your friend she wouldn't care. Although I will admit when one of my longest-known online friends told me he was male after 3 years of assuming otherwise I was sorta taken aback and it took me a while to register that fact. Regardless I didn't get mad at him or anything.
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Just simply tell her. It will be difficult for you because you don't know how she will react, but in the end that part is up to her.
If you're as good a friend to her as you think you are, she'll come round, even if she is shocked at first and doesnt know what to say.

/Speaks from experience lol.
 
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just let it out, tell the truth and explain it all
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tl;dr Friends for a LOOONG. She has a crush on me but, thinks I'm a girl. How do I dump truth?

She's probably a guy as well, lol
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I got over this a long time ago. o_o pls no necro.

But, a super late thanks to everyone who supported me.

She accepted me.
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I got over this a long time ago. o_o pls no necro.

But, a super late thanks to everyone who supported me.

She accepted me.
Sorry for the necro.
Actually the reason I stumbled across the topic was because I'm going through a similar situation myself right now.

I'm happy to hear that she forgave you, that gives me a little hope.
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