Haha, five people online at the same time in my guild is kinda...er, hard. (At least during the time I play o_o)
Another thing that gets me frustrated:
I add people on my buddylist in hopes of seeing some lively convos around; but it's like they never log onto that char again and I end up deleting them from the list after like a week or two. So I'm basically just talking to the same two~three people all the time. It's nice but just very boring when they're not on for me to spam them hahaha. XD
Same thing with me. I can eavesdrop on their conversations (well some were former Guild members that left due to a recent drama...). I don't necessarily have "conversations" with them (since some Guild members are also in my Buddy List), eh, I don't feel part of anything. So it's either Guild chat dead or BL dead.
What also frustrates me is this paranoia... well, since some Guild members are either busy and not much chat, I have come to fear that we'll lose more members and there was nothing I could do to alleviate. There won't be a sense of liveliness or belonging... I wish there was a way that I can tell my guildmates that this Guild cares and is very happy for them to be part of it. I know some have other accounts, afk selling, quests which is natural. Idk what to say anymore, too drained right now to think...