For male and female launchers, the difference really isn't too significant to give one an edge. It's basically awakening active and passives that's actually different. You have higher damage on non-cubes vs. being able to see enemy positions off screen. I'm not too sure what people think of the two awakenings actives nowadays.
For male and female strikers. It seems that female striker has better damage but if you ever get to the point where you're one shotting everything then male striker clears faster. Most people will never reach this point.
People can correct me on all of this because I don't actually main any of these.