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Posted 04-10-2010 at 02:04 PM by Temariah
For people that take a moment and actually talk to me, get to know me.. you know I'm a pretty laid back person. I try my hardest to be fun and funny, easy to be around.

Which is why I find it so excruciatingly painful...to see people avoid me. For a rather silly reason. I mean, a lot of /GGftw members avoid me.. because of something that happened long ago, something they know nothing of.

Like.. it honestly hurts to see people that look so fun and friendly avoid me like I'm a leper.

So, riddle me this.. is it fair to pre-judge people based off of your misunderstanding of a misconstrued event that happened months ago?

Furthermore.. suppose this person you avoided had done something awful. Is it then fair to condemn this person to a lifetime of antagonism and solitude based on one moment of indiscretion?

Riddle me this...

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  1. Lime's Avatar
    Hi Temariah.

    Sorry that you've felt this way. and i'm sorry if i've played a role in it as well.

    I'll speak for myself now. After what occured, i was not sure if you were open to anyone at all from here. Not even me myself. The saying "Let sleeping dogs lie" was well in effect for me. Don't know if you wanted to talk and say hi (though i do remember the exchange over server mics about MS ^^) or not to, as i could have gotten a mean response.

    Didn't know, and basically, i had an attitude of "well, guess just leaving her alone is probably best." Sure, I or others don't fully know the situation; but I and most did know one thing, it was their friend vs. someone they didn't know. Can't blame people for taking the side of a friend in a situation like that. Especially when the opposing side didn't seem to feel as though their friend's feelings were incorrect or pointless when they already sympathize with them. (at least from my own PoV.)

    I don't believe in condemning someone forever, if things seem to have resolved, or didn't end on a sour note. I can let it go.
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    Posted 04-10-2010 at 04:13 PM by Lime Lime is offline
  2. Not it's not fair to you to be judged.

    But keep in mind many of us gg's were there during the

    " baww lolmicdrama ima ragequeet here w/e stuff "

    So we know people and how they are. Now i am not saying this to attack or insult or by any chance make you feel like we don't like you.
    But many of us don't like getting mixed up with dramatic people so that is why we usually stray away.

    / That's my two cents
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    Posted 04-12-2010 at 12:45 AM by LolJaen LolJaen is offline
  3. SOC's Avatar
    I don't know you, I don't know what you've done, but I will listen to every one, even people like skittles. What's up?
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    Posted 04-12-2010 at 06:52 AM by SOC SOC is offline
  4. Temariah's Avatar
    Thank you for your comment Lime. It really made me smile a little bit. I know how people see the situation, but honestly I have NO ill feelings for certain people. None at all, and I'm really honestly glad that you can "let it go"

    Thank you.

    @ Shaezu : I highly doubt that you know the full situation. I really don't think ANYONE but me and other involved parties know the FULL situation. I'm not saying you're wrong, because I do know people tend to dramatize and magnify the situation, but I really don't think you can generalize and say you know how the situation I'm referring to would have worked out. But thank you for your comment and your time. It is appreciated.
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    Posted 04-28-2010 at 02:38 AM by Temariah Temariah is offline
 
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