well, i would rather have had this on PM, but he said that "voice are better heard when spoken in public." He basically thought that i would bite his head off if he didn't have witnesses, which i find kind of hurtful. i don't mind though, most of this forum dont even bother looking in the L+R forum.
We did continue the discussion, though, and the issue is almost completely resolved. I'm working on that last bit though.