By going abroad, you'll have better chance. Meanwhile, if you're to stay, how long would you think you can go on if situation persisted? If you take the red pill, your uncle will show how deep the rabbit ...*get smacked*
If you accept the offer, things could be more secured, considering you do inform and talk to your family, especially the kids. If you stay, then you got to need more <3 from your family. Really, because you're the breadwinner right?
3 more months yep .o/