I think I shall just let the world know since no one can reply here, but they can still read.
My sister and I are trying our best to ignore the situation in order to cope with it. It is not easy, we still worry about an uncertain future.
You say you fight more when we are at Dad's house. Well you fight more than enough when we are around.
At least you agreed to see the same psychologist. That is good, but you need to listen to the advice you do not like along with the advice you do like.
And when I talk to him, please do not thing I am against you. I know you both want to fix it. Getting him out of the state you are putting him in will only help. Besides I cannot stand seeing someone who has completely fell apart. I would do the same and have done the same for you.
When you are both angry, you say the most irrational things. Please remember that the other party will take these to heart, even though you did not mean it.
You, my sister, have it worse. After what happened to your friend. I am glad she came back though.
And lastly, you; the one who caused eight years of fighting to build up to this.. Remember that he is your Ex. He left you and does not love you anymore. You should not have tried to get him back; or be with him for everything. Face the facts as opposed to manipulating your children to get what you want.
Carrying on with life with this in the background will be a pain. I hope everyone arrounds me will understand