Okay so I've been going out with my girlfriend for over a year now. By the time she moves back home to SoCal we'll have been together for 1.5 years. I live in NorCal and we both went to school in NorCal.
We've already discussed what will happen to us and although I want to try, I don't see our relationship going anywhere. She has strict parents and even if I did go down and visit she said she can't guarantee she would be able to see me. I don't know what I should do. No I don't have any plans to move to SoCal because I'm working right now. My friend (old college roommate) has asked me to move to SoCal once he graduates from Grad school. Which although I want to, I know the only reason I would want to move is for my gf.
Do you think its pointless to hope? I don't want to give up but as I said is there a point to see her once ever 2 months?