Originally Posted by WhatThePhuc
girls paying for guys?
i thought it was the other way around
LOL, that's not how things work anymore, gramps XD
It's nice that you have friends, but if you continue to be like this, it's like implicitly stating that you support their lazy hobo attitude. They'll never learn to be independent if you keep bailing them out and stuff.
IMO, a quick solution is to say what you want straight to their faces, no holds barred. May cause some rifts in your friendship, but if they really truly value you at all as a friend and a person, they'll understand.